sunnybunny17, 17

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sunnybunny17, 17

I have a lot of problems that have been kept inside and I feel the need to tell someone, anyone.

First, my mom is an alcoholic and drinks every other night. Because of this, if we have plans made, she will choose the beer over me, any day.

My dad and I get along great. He understands me. Honestly, I feel bad for him, because he has to be stuck with my mom. I know it sounds awful, but she chooses beer over the family, not just me.

I don't know my brother. He moved away with some girl that nobody in my family likes. He is now living in the ghetto, because he gave up his 100$ an hour job for his drug addicted girlfriend.

Sunnybunny, you should not feel bad about being disappointed with your mother. You are right not to keep everything bottled up inside of you. Sharing your story on TeenCentral.net is a good idea.
Talking to people about what’s bothering you can help you to feel better. In addition to sharing your story on Teencentral.net, consider searching through posts of other people’s stories. Some other teens may have similar situations. Learning how they are dealing with these issues, may give you some ideas.
It is wonderful that you have a great relationship with your dad. Although it doesn’t excuse your mother's behavior, you are lucky to have a supportive parent. Remember to continue to talk to him often about what’s going on in your life. It will help you deal with your sadness about your mother and brother. Consider letting him know how much his support and love means to you. He knows without you saying so, but sometimes, it is nice to tell someone how much you appreciate him.
You feel that your mother has let you and the rest of the family down. This is an understandable reaction to your situation. Try not to feel guilty about it. Living with a loved one who has a drinking problem can be emotionally draining and very disheartening. Consider talking to your dad about your feelings about your mom. He knows her very well and may be able to help you deal with her drinking. Also, you could explain how sad and stressed you are. Perhaps he can work towards getting your mom some help.