emma134679, 16

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emma134679, 16

I am being used over and over again by boys. I feel so discouraged. I went through an extremely difficult break up, and it was so bad that I thought it could never get worse. But it did. I went out looking for love and instead have been used repeatedly by boys. I'm so hurt, and I don't know what to do to get through this time. Also, my ex keeps telling me to kill myself, which quite frankly is not helping.

Emma134679, it is natural to feel hurt and frustrated when going through a break-up but you have to find a way to cope positively.
If you feel comfortable speaking with your mother about your relationships, ask her for some advice and how she handled her past relationships. Also, you may want to bring up the fact that your ex-boyfriend is making negative, harsh comments towards you.
Look up programs within your community that deals with teen issues/relationships. You may be able to gain some guidance as well as meet other teens who may be experiencing the same problem as you.
Try distracting yourself with some activities/hobbies that you enjoy or spend more time with family and friends. This could help ease your mind from constantly thinking of your past relationships or finding love.
Talk privately with friends, and see how they handle break-ups, and see what advice they may have for you. Just know that in the end, any and all decisions are up to you.