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Elric, 14
Hey, guys. Sorry for my bad English, I am not from United States America. I have been following this site for a couple of weeks. I need advice from you because I do not know what to do anymore. I have started my first year in high school a month ago. It is horrible, I hate almost eveybody from my class. But there is one boy I am completly obsessed with. I think I am in love with him, he is the only reason why I am still in this stupid school. But it is becoming really because he is heterosexual, and I am gay. I know that I will never have anything with him, and every time I think about him it gives me strength, but it gives me pain too. I am not planning on telling him anything how I feel because I know that he would hate me if he discover my sexuality. I am not confused, just desperate.

- Elric, sexuality is becoming an issue that many people talk about currently, but it is only one dynamic of who you are.
- Please consider that you are person that has a unique personality, and that others enjoy you for who you are and not solely your sexuality.
- It may be difficult to think about, but if a friend can not accept you for who you are, even your sexuality, then that friendship could be more destructive than helpful.
- If the person gives you strength, then building on that friendship can help you through your struggles, but you should also continue to work on finding your confidence and endurance within yourself and not dependent only on someone else.
- Your school may have extracurricular activities or organizations that may be of interest to you that you could participate in. By joining such things you may gain new friends that will make high school more manageable.
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