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Brown eyes, 15
I'm feeling very confused right now. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We're on opposite sides of the world and I don't even know when will we see each other again. Actually, I've already felt like I shouldn't have got into this relationship because of my culture. I feel like I'm too young to work with this. I think this is the age that I should concentrate on studying. However, since I've already decided to get into it, I don't feel like I should break up with him. I've promised not to hurt anyone. In fact, I love him. Although, sometimes when I see his social media page, it makes me feel worried about how his life is going out there. Is he having a relationship with another girl secretly? I won't be angry or blame him if he did that, but I just want him to let me know so I won't be in a position in which I'm very unclear and indecisive like right now. What should I do? Since our relationship has quite a little possibility and I feel like I know him too little that I can't really trust him, or it's just my feelings. I don't know, but my idea of not being the one who says break up makes me feel very confused. I just want to go on with this, but I don't know how. Please help me!

- Brown eyes, you will get through this. Long distance relationships are hard for most people.
- Be honest with your boyfriend. It's not only unfair to you to gather up false hope, but it's also unfair to your boyfriend. If you honestly feel like this relationship isn't going to work out then you should definitely confront your boyfriend about it. You will lift a weight off your shoulder instead of letting it weigh you down.
- Gather information before completely jumping to conclusions. You might just be nervous because he is far away from you, but that doesn't necessarily mean he is a bad guy. Think to yourself if he has given you any signs that he might be seeing other girls. This will help you come to a conclusion easier.
- Just follow your heart. Your heart is always right.If you feel like staying with him is wrong, then let him down slowly. You might be better off as friends right now.
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