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Mr,Zombie, 18
I like girls, but I like looking at guys. I think they're very attractive. My best friend is a guy, and I want to be with him. Its like I want to have sex with a guy, but I want to be with a girl. What does that mean? Does it mean I'm gay or what? if someone can help me, please help. I feel lost like I am hiding so much from my family and friends.
- Mr,Zombie, we are all different in this world. It is natural to feel fear if you feel that you might be judged.
- Being gay, lesbian or bisexual isn't a choice. It is something that we are born with. Try taking some time out of your day to sit down and think what really makes you the happiest, a boy or a girl. If it's both, then you might be bisexual.
- There is nothing wrong with feeling lost about this situation. You can start off by telling a friend or family member that you know won't judge you or make you feel guilt or sadness. Telling one person at a time might make it easier on you.
- Since everything is usually kept confidential with counselors you can talk to a counselor at your local school who might help you get to the bottom of whatever you are feeling in this scenario.
- TeenCentral.Net also has a teen hotline number that you can call on our website. There you will be connected with someone who is there to listen to you over the phone. Just talking to someone and venting might help you a lot.
- To make you feel more comfortable you can check out our variety of stories from teens that have been or are going through the same problem that you are. You can share responses and see how they dealt with it.
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