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annaw, 14
My ex-boyfriend will not leave me alone.
- Annaw having someone who constantly bothers you can be stressful, frustrating and a bit frightening. You are in an uncomfortable situation.
- If you feel that your ex-boyfriend is a physical threat to you, please consider talking to an adult about your concerns immediately. Even if he is not threatening you physically, you may wish to speak to an adult whom you trust about the situation. For example, your father might have some suggestions on how to get your ex-boyfriend to stop bothering you.
- Sometimes when we are in an uncomfortable situation, we need to step back and think about what we can do to fix the problem. In this case, consider what you can control and what you can't. For example, you can try not to let his actions bother you as much. You could tell yourself that you need to stay cool and not let him upset you. In time, he may decide on his own to stop bothering you. If you do not feel threatened by his actions, you may just try to be patient and wait it out.
- However, if you feel that you cannot let his actions continue, you should try talking to him. Consider what you can say to your ex-boyfriend to try to let him know nicely that he is upsetting you. You may want explain to him that his actions are upsetting you. You could tell him that you need more space. He may not know that his actions are bothering you.
- If your ex-boyfriend is not concerned about how his actions are making you feel, think about talking to someone who can get him to stop. You may consider having your Dad talk to his parent or guardian.
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